Wednesday, February 25, 2009

A Happily Ever After story...

Our friends Ben and Gina started the adoption process about the same time we did. (At the time we had no idea the other was planning to adopt!). We finished the paperwork around the same time. We got chosen for babies around the same time. Then our birth mother changed her mind. A couple months later, after meeting their twin boys, the birth mother changed her mind. About month after that, they got chosen again, only to have this birth mother change her mind also. This adoption process, it can be quite the rollercoaster of emotions!

Last week Ben and Gina got a call about a four-month old baby boy down south. The parents had already signed the paperwork. No more rollercoaster. This baby was their son. They named him Jackson. Jackson has had a rough life that no child should have to endure. Those who know about his story have feelings of sadness, anger, disgust...all of which were feelings I felt initially. However, the way I see it now is that Jackson has been saved. He is going home to a place where he will be loved and adored by his parents- a home where he can heal and thrive. If anyone can give Jackson the life he deserves, it is Ben and Gina- two of the most loving people I know.

I think this story is proof that some things happen for a reason. Ben and Gina have had a crazy emotional rollercoaster ride that is adoption. But this Friday Saturday they bring home the baby that was meant to be their son. Jackson needs them. And they need Jackson. It is a Happily Ever After if I've ever seen one.

Congratulations to Ben and Gina and baby Jackson- with much love!

11 comments:

Leanne said...

Thank you, Lord! They'll be amazing parents to a little guy who needs tons of love!

Anonymous said...

It has been an amazing journey! Jackson is one LUCKY boy and Ben and Gina are LUCKY parents to get him to fill that "void" in their lives! Wishing nothing but happiness for this new family!

MindiJo said...

Ahh! That's so sweet. I wish the whole family the best.

MindiJo said...

Ahh! That's so sweet. I wish the whole family the best.

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad to hear it!! Congratulations to Ben & Gina! What a blessing.

Amanda Kay said...

Wow, very touching! I don't know who Ben & Gina are but that is so awesome for them!!

Elizabeth Halt said...

how wonderful! I'm glad they found each other.

Pete/Heidi said...

That's great news! Obviously, it was meant to be that Jackson would find a home with them! Congrats Ben & Gina!

Megan said...

Awesome! I love stories that end in happily ever after. If that little boy turns out to be a fraction as happy and easy going as his mom and dad he'll be great!

Julie said...

I am over the moon happy for them. They've had so much heartache and need this baby just as much as he needs them. So wonderful!

Jennifer Skoog Photography said...

What a beautiful story; and what a beautiful writer! I hope you have your happily ever after story soon, or as soon as God intends.
Love, Jen